Life Overwhelming

In John 10:10, Jesus stated that He had come so we could have life and have it abundantly.  Of course, the words of Jesus are total truth, but there are time in which it seems I have life overwhelming rather than life abundantly.  How about you?

Even at its best, life is unpredictable.  We never know what unexpected circumstances will arise needing our attention.  However, even when it is not great, life comes from God, and there are always aspects for which we can be thankful.

A Horrible Day

Often, we have one of those days that just seems off somehow.  Nothing happened that we could not handle, but it just seemed that a few limits had been pushed.  Some days, you and I can be out of sorts and not be sure of the cause.  Jesus is still Lord even on those days.  His grace is sufficient on those “off” days.  Furthermore, He cares about those off days, and we are free to bring them to Him asking for grace.

life 2Unfortunately, there are days that are just horrible no matter how you look at them.  Various circumstances or events can be the cause.  A bad report from a doctor, the death of a friend or loved one, the loss of a job, receiving divorce papers, or a variety of other negative events can change our lives in nearly a split second.  Jesus is still Lord in these times and circumstances.  He is in control.  Of course, knowing He is in control can lead to questions.  How can a loving God allow these things to happen?

No matter how overwhelming life becomes, we can still go to Jesus for healing and restoration.  Even if the circumstances are not that horrible, we can still go to Him and allow Him to take our frustrations.  There is nothing too big or too small for His care.

Dealing with the Overwhelming

There is no perfect, cut and dried answer that I can give you as to ways you can deal with life when it becomes too much.  All I know is that I have learned in every circumstance to go directly to God in prayer.  When I fail to do this, I usually end up taking matters into my own hands.  As a result, a mess of my own making usually occurs.

When life is overwhelming and problems seem to come at you in droves, it can be tempting to take matters into your own hands.  It can be tempting to make rash decisions that bring temporary relief.  1 Corinthians 10:13 reminds us that all temptations we face are common to other people.  In other words, other people have been where you are.  We are also reminded that God provides ways of escape through temptation.  As a result, you can run to Him when you are tempted to allow daily life to awaken every negative emotion you possess.  Mercy Seat 2

If you have had an unusually horrible day, or, if you have simply had an irritating day, go to the Lord and ask Him to help you learn from the experience.  If you are facing grief, find someone to talk with who can help you through the process.  God gave other people to help carry our burdens.  Ask those God has placed in your life for help, then, when the time comes, be willing to be of help to others.

Coping with Stress

We all know that life can be stressful.  Some times are worse than others. Sometimes, everything seems to come at us all at once.  There are some steps we can take to reduce the stress in our lives, yet, there are some stressful situations that we might not be able to escape right away.  Whatever your situation, God has promised to never leave you nor forsake you.

When to Reduce Stress

cropped-your-word-is-life-11.pngThere are just some behaviors and treatment we receive from other people that we simply do not need to put up with.  For example, if you are in a relationship with someone who is either physically or verbally abusive, it is time to make some changes.  To continue to tolerate the treatment you are receiving in that situation is detrimental to your well-being. If you are married to someone who is abusive, seek help through a trusted pastor or other spiritually mature Christian.

If your job is too much for you, then, it is time to decide what you will deal with and what you will not tolerate.  Will ignoring the situation help?  Sometimes, it does.  There are people who get a thrill out of bothering others.  Not allowing them to know they have succeeded is just the response they need.  Other times, it is necessary to confront.  How will you know?  You must seek God in prayer concerning the situation.  He will lead you by peace.

When You Just Need to Cope

There will be some stressful situations in which you must cope.  In other words, there might be a reason that God will not allow you to leave this situation.  It could be a job, a bad marriage, or a church.  When the Holy Spirit leads you to remain in a stressful situation, God is going to bring good out of it.  He is going to use you in this situation.  He will get glory from it in some way.

When coping is the case, you must really draw near to God, or, you will not stand strong in the situation.  You will need God’s grace moment by moment.  Get into the Word of God and find scriptures that apply to your situation.  Quote them out loud. Get before the Lord in prayer. He will give you what you need for the situation, and He will allow you to come out in victory rather than defeat.

His grace is sufficientWe all face situations that we do not like, and we all go through adverse circumstances.  What we must remember is that we do not have to allow those things to destroy us.  We can choose to allow the Lord to refine us and make us better Christians from these situations.

 

What about you?  Are you in a stressful situation from which you should flee?  If so, go in the name of Jesus.  Are you in a stressful situation in which God has told you to stay?  If so, trust Him in this situation, He will bring you through, and you will not be destroyed.